If you agree with the idea that people choose their own path, then let us consider two possible scenarios today. I hasten to note that there are many more, but for now we will focus on two variations of movement in radically opposite directions. No matter how contrasting these options may be, the main point is that neither of them is a sentence — and we can personally choose which direction to move in. Consciously, of course.
The first variation is a mindset oriented toward victory. Do not think that this means victory over rivals — no. It means something else. We simply set certain goals for ourselves on a regular basis, and once we achieve them, we set new ones. In other words, within this variation, we take responsibility for our actions and live in accordance with our worldview and individual values. We overcome our fears, doubts, and insecurities. Accordingly, a clear mindset for victory leads us along the path of success and creation.
The second variation is a subconscious expectation of failure or defeat. This has nothing to do with total bad luck, but rather with a deeply rooted attitude of constant “bad luck.” When a person holds such an indigestible mindset, they unconsciously organize their life in a way that prevents them from achieving their own goals. Time after time, they step on practically the same “rakes,” repeatedly and with bitter satisfaction uttering the crushing phrase: “Well, I knew it!” On a conscious level, they dislike this outcome, yet in reality this is precisely what they subconsciously strive for. This path of self-imposed limitations, unfortunately, leads to real and tangible problems — not imaginary or virtual ones.
Friends, answer this question honestly: how do you organize your life? In which areas are you a winner, and in which are you a loser? And what is the very first, tentative step you are ready to take in one of these areas — health, family, or career — toward the creative variation of the Winner?
Keep in mind that the Winner Variation is by no means an innate magical talent. It is a realistically achievable result of regular, conscious movement in a specific direction chosen by you personally. And that is quite encouraging, isn’t it, dear friends?