Very often, people drown in their own illusions. What are these illusions about? They concern the idea that some people are higher in rank and others are lower. Some individuals immerse themselves so deeply in these illusory beliefs and look up to all these high-ranking individuals that their inner tension increases wildly, threatening to tear … Continue reading Far-fetched illusions

If, at the dawn of your relationship, your partner showers you with attention, gifts, and a barrage of assertive advances, creating the illusion of a magical, fairy-tale romance, this may well be a sign not of sincere, deep passion, but of ordinary manipulation — the goal of which is to get you emotionally involved and, … Continue reading Overbearing Love

Let’s talk today about what makes some people cling so desperately to their sometimes downright destructive life scenarios and to the difficulties that seem to arise out of nowhere. In reality, these difficulties do not come out of nowhere, because they are a kind of subconscious “bonus” that we, without fully realizing it, order for … Continue reading Infantilism — Good or Bad?

What does it mean to be proactive? It means that a person with an active approach to life does not simply drift along like an amoeba, but actively analyzes their life situation. They do not just analyze it — they regularly set specific goals. And they do not merely set goals; they plan concrete steps … Continue reading An Active Approach to Life

The pitfall of paralyzing perfectionism is no joke! Believe me, there is nothing to be proud of here. Sometimes perfectionists paralyze themselves so completely in their pursuit of an unattainable ideal that there is certainly nothing to laugh about. How does healthy human self-discipline differ from tenacious, suffocating perfectionism? Firstly, self-discipline (SD) is usually fueled … Continue reading The Pitfall of Paralyzing Perfectionism

Self-discipline is not an innate talent, as some people think, but a skill that can be developed to consciously manage your life. The main thing is to combine this developed ability with your life goals, both short-term and long-term, and fundamental.  But do not just spin around aimlessly like a squirrel in a wheel. Of … Continue reading Self-Discipline 

Do you have a desire for inner growth and self-realisation? Then you should be prepared to accept that discomfort is normal, because for self-improvement, whether you like it or not, you will have to step outside your comfort zone, as it is obvious that real breakthroughs are impossible without certain sacrifices.  By the way, do … Continue reading Self-Realisation 

Practically all of us subconsciously create our own life script in childhood, deeply embedding personal beliefs not only about ourselves and others, but also about the world itself. And so we live to this day, holding all these beliefs deep within ourselves, based on which we give certain reactions to everything, forgetting over time that … Continue reading Life Script

Let’s try to conduct a strength test together. Who? Not who, but what — our goals. Because the main goal for many people, and the most coveted goal for most, is money. However, this goal is not only banal but also utopian from the outset. Why? Because the focus should be on your personal skills … Continue reading Strength Test