No matter how beautifully we plan our future, no matter how enthusiastically we write down our short-term and long-term goals, whether mentally or on paper, they will all remain beautiful mental images without one important and necessary nuance—without the first step. It is this step, this precious debut, that magically transforms all our mental theories … Continue reading A Precious Debut
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Pathological concern
When natural, normal concern for another person first becomes excessive, then obsessive, and eventually hypertrophied, it ultimately turns into pathological concern after all these transitional stages. While normal and adequate care is a completely natural and commendable feeling, obsessive attachment becomes a pathological desire to control another person—helping them in every way possible, even at … Continue reading Pathological concern
Varieties of Salt
Without a product as commonplace as salt, food is not food at all, but simply bland drivel. Although we all know that we should eat as little of this white, granular mineral as possible and try not to overdo it, as excessive consumption can have unpleasant consequences for our bodies. I solved this problem for … Continue reading Varieties of Salt
Forgive, justify, or reconcile?
Is it possible to show leniency towards someone and forgive them, even when you clearly understand deep down that they are categorically wrong? Not only is it possible, it is sometimes necessary. Forgiveness is a conscious gesture that allows you to stop harbouring resentment and release a great deal of energy. After all, some people … Continue reading Forgive, justify, or reconcile?
Sweeteners Explained
It always amuses me when an advertisement for a product emphasizes the absence of sugar and presents this as a huge selling point. But if we look at the ingredients list for that very product, we often discover, much to our disappointment, that instead of ordinary natural sugar, it contains a host of unusual chemical … Continue reading Sweeteners Explained
Speech about spare time
Hello everyone. Today I would like to ask you two simple questions. Have you ever looked at the clock and realised that you’ve spent hours doing absolutely nothing? And how often do we waste our time mindlessly scrolling through our phones without even noticing it? Unfortunately, nowadays not only do teenagers spend much of their … Continue reading Speech about spare time
Blueberries. A Quintessentially English Berry?
I can’t, of course, claim that this is strictly a British berry, but the fact that this round, delicious berry is sold in vast quantities here—unlike in Ukraine—is undeniable. The price, of course, isn’t cheap, but it’s still far more reasonable than in our country. Of course, blueberries don’t grow just anywhere here, like blackberries … Continue reading Blueberries. A Quintessentially English Berry?
The Essence of the Act
If you have set yourself a goal such as “happiness, wealth, and more money” – congratulations, you are unlikely to achieve much with this kind of goal. Why? Let’s briefly discuss this. The main principle of obtaining money and happiness is not to focus on them directly. The pinnacle of skill is to obtain them … Continue reading The Essence of the Act
Identify and redirect
If you take such pleasure in other people's failures that, in the heat of schadenfreude, you forget about your own achievements — which, in the grand scheme of things, mean even less to you than relishing other people's failures — then this is a clear sign that your feelings are far from constructive. On the … Continue reading Identify and redirect
🍪🍬🍭 Types of Sweets. What Is Safe to Choose?
Where would we be without them, our beloved sweets? They cheer us up, comfort us, and simply add a touch of joy and pleasure to tea time. But you have to choose them carefully so that the pleasure doesn't turn into a sad story. The most important thing, which I mention in almost every article … Continue reading 🍪🍬🍭 Types of Sweets. What Is Safe to Choose?
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